How online counselling for children works
Online counselling for children is a weekly video session between your child and a qualified counsellor, held from home at a fixed time. At Young Minds Grow each session lasts 50 minutes and Gitta Strassman MBACP sees your child herself, every week, from the first session to the last.
We offer online counselling for children anywhere in the UK. The process is the same as for families who see us in person. It starts with a free 15-minute call, then a 50-minute meeting with you alone by video, then weekly sessions with your child and a review with you every six sessions or so.
Which children online sessions suit
Online sessions suit a lot of teenagers. Many will talk more easily from their own bedroom, with a familiar mug of tea and the option of switching their camera off for a minute if something gets hard. It also suits children who find travel or new buildings overwhelming, which includes many autistic children, and families who live a long way from a children’s counsellor they trust.
It suits some children less well. Very young children often struggle to stay with a screen for long, and the play materials in a real playroom matter more at that age. If your child is under about eight and lives within reach of north Manchester, we may suggest sessions at our clinic or in their school instead. Some families use online sessions for a few weeks while a child gets used to Gitta, then move to in-person sessions.
What a session looks like on a screen
Online sessions are more active than people expect. A ten-year-old might spend part of the session drawing a picture of ‘the worst bit of Tuesday’ and holding it up to the camera, then making a model of their worry out of play dough. Another child might give Gitta a video tour of their Lego city and talk about who lives where.
Teenagers usually just talk, and Gitta follows their lead. She has worked with children and young people for 25 years, much of it with autistic and ADHD children, and she adapts online sessions in the same ways she would in person: movement breaks, shorter activities, or a camera pointed at the ceiling for a while if eye contact on a screen feels too much.
Privacy and safety when counselling is online
Your child needs to be somewhere they can’t be overheard, and we ask that nobody else is in the room unless we have agreed it. We use the same confidentiality as in person: you hear how things are going, not what your child said.
Before the first session we agree a safety plan with you, including where your child will usually be and who to contact if Gitta is worried during a session. If your child is ever in immediate danger, call 999 or go to A&E. For psychiatric care or medication, contact your GP, who can refer to your local CAMHS.
Gitta is a registered member of the BACP (no. 406991), DBS checked, fully insured and receives regular clinical supervision, wherever in the UK your family is.